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Olivia V. posted a condolence

Tuesday, July 30, 2024

I will always remember Tommy for his sweet smile and gentle way of speaking when we were all so young. His kindness transcends years of life and has touched so many people lucky enough to have known him. All my love and peace to the Rollman family and friends, and may the memories you have of him and love he has left behind comfort you whenever you need it. Olivia

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Sunday, July 14, 2024

I've had a lot of trouble coming up with the words to make sense of this. And I don't think it will, things will never sit right with this one. So I'll just say some things that I know are true, and matter. Tommy was the most important thing you can be. He was Good. So Pure hearted. I called him up last weekend asking if my dogs could hang out with him because I was going out, and all the 4th of July fireworks were scaring them, and asked could he keep them company. He said no problem, bring them right over, and did I want him to grab me a sandwich, because he was just about to run to the deli for some breakfast. When I got to the house we caught up, he told me about his latest Yankee game from the night before. There had been a rain delay and he was bummed that he'd had to leave. He took it in stride though, there were plenty of games he had been to already. I talked about my plans for the day, and told him he should hit up a few of the places I was about to go to so we could compare notes later, and he said he would. We talked about our family, other things we'd been up to, and then I headed out. Later, he texted me a picture of the dogs sleeping on his bed, because he knows I worry. I never asked him to. But he had this way of figuring out what people needed and doing it, and not asking for anything in return. I'd see it in the way he did repairs around the house for Mom, how he took care of yard work and Christmas lights and the extra things that keep our days bright. I'd see it in the way he looked after Grandpa, and when he sent me fudge from Stut's when he heard I was feeling down. I can't help but feel like I was interrupted in the middle of getting to meet the best parts of him as they blossomed so fully. I'm angry. I'm confused. I'm a lot of things. But I'm also so overflowing with love and appreciation for him. We're not saying goodbye, because he will walk with us forever. I will keep a piece of him with me every step I take, forever, with every breath. He is my little brother and an inextinguishable part of what makes me, me. I know that goes the same for anyone who was lucky enough to be loved by him. We all love you so much Tommy. And that's all I want to feel when the pain fades enough to be bearable again. Just the love we all have for him, and the love we will carry forward in his honor.

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Adam Merkle posted a condolence

Saturday, July 13, 2024

Tom and I shared a close friendship which spanned over the two decades. I will fondly remember Tom as a loyal, sweet, easy going and compassionate man who cared deeply for all his friends and family. Tom touched many people's lives with his infectous smile and joyful attitude. He was always willing to offer a helping hand or be someone to vent to about life's many problems when necessary. His carefree attitude and selflessness shown through on a daily basis and made him a joy to be around. From our initial friendship forged on the kickball field at Meeting House Hill school to present day, I will forever cherish the bond and great memories that we made together. I will forever remember Tom as the guy who would never show up to any occasion empty handed. I have been on the receiving end of his kindness and generosity many times, most notably when he sent me some Philadelphia Eagles themed artwork for my new place that I am sure must have really pained him to hit purchase on as a loyal Giants fan. I will continue to cherish and celebrate these gestures as that was just the type of thoughtful person that Tom was. From the many adventures up at Uconn making memories with the crew, to the countless nights at Ken Oaks perfecting our Djing skills or competing at whatever video game was popular at the time. From the sports games, music concerts and festivals to the incredible trips that we shared together in Mexico, Arizona and North Carolina, Tom whas always been an integral part of my life and I am so lucky and grateful that I had the chance to know him and his kindness and compassion. My deepest sympathies, thoughts and prayers go out to the Rollman family during this very difficult time. Sharing in your sadness, Adam Merkle

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Friday, July 12, 2024

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Kyle Vahjen uploaded photo(s)

Thursday, July 11, 2024

Tom was one of my closest friends. We talked nearly every day about the identical cars we bought, the projects he was working on around the house, hiring the neighbor kids to fix the lawn mower because "they're really smart with that kind of thing", or taking his grandfather to an appointment. I genuinely looked forward to talking to him at the end of my day, and I will miss it dearly. Tom was the only friend crazy enough to rent a Lamborghini with me, responsible enough that I'd want to sit shotgun, and laid-back enough to take it through the In-and-Out drive-thru. He knew when to take things seriously, and when to have a little fun. Tom was loyal, caring, kind, and a man of principles. He liked to provide for those he loved, and he deeply loved his family and friends. I already miss him more than I can express. I can only imagine what the family is going through, and offer my deepest condolences.

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Thursday, July 11, 2024

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